Tuesday, September 30, 2008

what is love???

What is love? I don't know.. I thought I knew all about it.. but falling in and out of it has made me boggle on the word again... many poeple define it in thier own terms. for nation lovers it's all about the service you can provide to ur countrymen. For youngsters, love is a crazy feeling for thier favourite filmstars..for a wife her love is her husband.. I doubt if the children come under that category or not! money takes over the feeling of love for those entreprenuers. the list is endless...

Is love blind? yes, to some extent. it is blind.. but you go blind when you are in love or when u r out of it? I guess it's both but the intensity is more on the latter part of it. All is happy rosy and beautiful while u r in love. you don't see the negative side of anything. Gosh you so negatively positive...

once you are out of love.. the body and mind goes round.. you keep thinking of the person.. which is rationally not required now. you dt think of anyone but them. you are so immersed in your own sadness and grief that you forget to look after your friends, family , you forget that you belong to tother poeple also. And if by god's grace you realize this, GUILT is the where zone you end up.then what? start hating yourself? or trying to fill up the gaps. generally, that gap is now filled up ... by someone else. when you were not there. so you loose it there also. moreover, the rest of the world seems dingy, dark ,gloomy hell like place. Earlier you were living for two people atleast. the one you loved, and yourself. now you are not.. not for them, yourself or for anyone who needed you but does not require you anymore. You dont seem to recognize the beauty of the world. WHAT THE HECK..is what you start living on........

love .. then is......... JUST A CHEMICAL REACTION IN YOUR BRAIN...

kindly keep it out of reach........

4 comments:

Anil said...

Love is more than a chemical recation.

charu srivastava said...

no my dear.. it is a chemical reacion as with this change.. the rest (more than a chemical reaction) begins...

Passionate said...

On that account - should we say that love for the country is a chemical reaction?
On the same argument should we say that kindness leading to help the needy is also a chemical reaction? May be
- Would it not be unfair to include the spiritualness (which to me is also very important)in this dry explanation of love :)

charu srivastava said...

the explanation is dry but true..
yes the various kinds u have mentioned.. they r the chemical reactions...

for they are just mere illusions.. n the world gets full of hyppocrits